single..... destiny or choice????

okay single fellas..... now let's face it... that's what most people,, or the elder think about us, right??

hahahahahahaha... yaaaa,, i mean,, that is one of many things came up when they talk with us about our relationship status... and for those who consider mature enough to have someone and get married,, they always ask "when you're going to be married??"
well,, that's the question that I hate soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much then I become alergy because of that...
why????
because I'm single!!!!!!!!!!!!
and when I said that, they ask.. "why??" "don't you have boyfriend??"
hmmmmmmmmm.... it gives me headache, peeps..
really............ (-__-")



and two days ago... me and my besties,, talk about our relationship status...
well,,,, the conclusion of that crazy-stupid conversation is we're just too young to get married because we have to find the best in our life.. and since we still not find it now.. we just living this world with a lot of fun...


last night, i re-think about that conversation and many talks I had previously with others...
and this questions pops out.. "why some people happy with their single status while some, can't stay if they're single and end up dating or involved in a relationship with someone they didn't even want at the very beginning??"

after thinking about that I came up with conclusions...
being single is not only a choice but also a destiny...
we choose being single because we still can't find the right person.. (some says single is too picky)
or who we think the right person already came to our life, but he or she turns out involved with someone else or break our heart then, we can't find the other right person until now.
why it's a destiny?? because I believe GOD still prepare that right person to meet an extraordinary us.. because I know, that right person is the one who willing to accepts us for who are us, not for what are us.. GOD still write our love story so it will become a happy ending... (the truth is,, I slightly laugh when wrothe this.... hahahahahahahaha)
and for those who already have someone in their life but still looking for the best.. it's their choice.. we are all wanted the best, right?? so they don't do something's wrong. what they did is what a normal human being do... including the single... hehehehehehehehe.... so, just accept that, people... don't be angry with them,, seriously... because I know, deep in your heart, you want someone better than you have but you just too affraid ending up years of your time and memories with them. hahahahaha... just admit that.. really...
and the last is... enjoying your life... whether your single or not.. just be happy with that... because happiness is one thing that always help us through this life...
what a wise me......... hahahahahahahahahahaha...
oh yes... I can be a wise person, too..... =)

so..... in the end.... just live your life... don't think about what people think or what they're going to think about you if you do certain things... it's your life and people have no rights to judge it.. because only you who really know what's going on in your life and only you who fill "the shoes", not them...